Babies have a special way of connecting with people, often recognizing those who are kind and caring. That’s why many people are often surprised when a baby takes an immediate liking to them. It’s like the baby can sense something special about the person that even they don’t know about. Babies have a knack for finding those who are patient, loving, and nurturing. They have an uncanny ability to see past any façade or exterior and sense the good within a person. That’s why babies like me. I’m the kind of person who loves to show babies how much I care. I enjoy talking to them and making them laugh, and I’m always ready to give them a warm hug or a comforting pat on the back. With me, babies know they are safe and protected, and that’s why they like me.
Why Do Babies Love Me?
Baby Kate has had a hard time lately. When her mother asks why she is so grumpy, she replies that her baby sister is always throwing things at her and calling her names. Her mother tries to explain that babies love their siblings and that it is not Kate’s fault. But when baby Sarah starts throwing things at Kate, too, will Kate finally understand?
What Is The Science Behind The Baby-Adult Connection?
- Babies tend to have a special affinity for their mothers. They are attracted to the smell, sound, and sight of their mothers.
- Babies have an innate need to bond with their mothers. This is the first and most important relationship they will ever experience in life!
- Not only do babies need to bond with their mothers, but also with other people that can provide them with nurturing and protection.
- Babies learn from observing what others do and how they treat others in their environment, as well as from observing how adults interact with each other in public places such as grocery stores, restaurants, and doctors’ offices.
- Babies are social creatures and learn to connect with others through imitation and mimicry.
- Babies have a natural ability to communicate with humans by using their eyes and facial expressions, as well as by vocalizing their needs.
- Babies have an innate need to feel safe and secure in the world around them, and they seek out people who will provide this for them.
- Babies have a need to be held, comforted, and nurtured, and they seek out people who will provide this for them.
- Babies are born with a sense of curiosity and playfulness that they learn from observing their mothers and other caregivers.
- Babies are deeply aware of their surroundings and can perceive what is going on around them in the environment, often using the same sensory channels that adults use (sight, smell, sound).
Different Types Of Baby-Adult Connections
- love of baby for parents: the parents love their babies and the baby loves them back, i.e. they reciprocate each other’s love
- love of baby for siblings: the siblings may not love each other but they have to accept and tolerate one another
- love of baby for self: the child does not need a parent to show them how to behave, they know what is right and wrong on their own
- love of baby for peers: children can be cruel and rude to each other; this book shows that it is better to be nice to everyone
- fear of a mother’s reaction: children are afraid that their parents will hit them or shout at them if they do something wrong, this book shows how a mother should never hit her child or shout at her
- fear of being punished by peers: children do not want to get into trouble with their parents as they feel that it will affect their relationship with others
- fear of being punished by parents: children are afraid that their parents will punish them if they do something wrong, this book shows that it is better, to tell the truth
- fear of being punished by others: children do not want to get into trouble with their parents because they feel that it will affect their relationship with others, this book shows that it is better, to tell the truth
- fear of punishment or praise by peers: children do not want to get into trouble with their parents as they feel that it will affect their relationship with others, this book shows that it is better, to tell the truth
- feelings of being abandoned by one’s mother: a mother may be away from her child for long periods and may be busy or tired at times, this book shows how a mother should never abandon her child.
How Can Adults Establish A Connection With A Baby?
- Give the baby a toy that is appropriate for her age.
- Speak to the baby in a way she can understand.
- Use words that make sense to the baby (e.g., “I love you,” “You’re special.” etc.).
- Encourage the baby to laugh and smile by being silly or funny.
- Make eye contact with the baby and respond to her cues of interest, e.g., smile, laugh, coo, feed, etc.
- Touch the baby in ways that are appropriate for her age.
- Talk to the baby to establish a connection with her.
- Involve the baby in play and activities that interest her, e.g., tickling, playing peek-a-boo, dancing, etc.
- Let the baby know that you love her and that she is special by giving hugs, kisses, and other expressions of affection.
- Respond to the baby’s cues of interest, such as smiling, laughing, cooing, and feeding.
- Use language that makes sense to the baby (e.g., “I love you,” “You’re special.” etc.).
- Encourage the baby to laugh and smile by being silly or funny.
- Touch the baby in ways that are appropriate for her age.
- Talk to the baby to establish a connection with her.
- Involve the baby in play and activities that interest her, e.g., tickling, playing peek-a-boo, dancing, etc.
Conclusion
An adult-baby connection is a strong emotional bond between a baby and an adult. A baby’s connection with an adult can be described by its intensity. Strong connections can be described as deep emotional attachments, whereas shallow connections are more of a loose affiliation. Moreover, babies are naturally drawn towards adults who can communicate well, are patient, and provide them with ample social interactions. In order to connect with a baby, an adult needs to create an environment conducive to communication, be patient, and provide the child with enough social interactions.
